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can a sayed caste boy marry pathan caste girl and lead a prosperous life,in view of islam?

Hello
This is Hafeez Ahmad here,I am a sayed caste boy and would like to marry a pathan caste girl,But my mother objects saying that life will not be prosperous as per her experience viewed in life,even it may lead to divorce.Kindly suggest me what is the actual fact as per islamic rules/regulations.

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The problem with your mother’s outlook is that it is racist and also shows her classism. You and she are no better than anyone else.

Marry the girl you want to marry and don’t worry about something made-up (caste system) by ignorant men a long time ago. Those days should by now be long gone — there’s just no room for such ignorance in the world anymore.


salam,,,its a wonder you dont know the rules of islam it doesnt take in to account cast or riches or color of the skin….islam doesnot believe in discrimaination….. and how are you people sayed anyway i just dont get it the prophet didnot have sons did he???might be because people would start discriminating by being called sayed….in anycase….no its perfectly okay and read Quran and the prophet’s life see if he rejected a slave as a son in law?…orif he had a most dear companion who was a slave previously…to marry, all you have to do is meet a person and decide if you like him/ her.


I think you’ve got the wrong word - “Caste” there.

You say you’re a Sayed or a follower of the Sayedna, whereas the girl is a Khan or a Pashtu, Sunni, I’m guessing.

That would be be two different denominations of Islam, not Castes.

Just a thought, but, isn’t it a fact that the Sunni do not consider the Sayeds to be Muslims, at all? Like with the Ahmediyyas etc?

How “prosperity” can have anything to do with the marriage, unless you’re talking about her bringing in a fat dowry or otherwise - totally escapes me, I’m afraid.

I thought that prosperity came with hard work and intelligent investments.

Maybe I need to understand you better, but, I’m afraid your language eludes me, too.

All the best.

Akela,
the Lone Wolf


Soon after the passing away of Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him) Islam expanded and started to mix with various civilizations in unique ways. These civilizations had their own social structures, which Islam generally accepted, such as specific tribal systems or royal lineages, and so on.

Islam allowed societies to maintain certain social status for certain groups of people based on their lineages and tribes. Thus, for example, persons who came from certain noble Arabic (prophetic) lineages kept a special status in terms of them not receiving charity and perhaps having some special conditions for accepting marriage proposals, and so on.

However, it is essential to note that the Indian caste system that Muslims had adopted is different from the above. On one hand, it does have a side of it that could be acceptable in Islam, such as honoring certain lineages.

n the other hand, in reality, it is a framework for an unfair social system that goes against the Islamic principles of equality of human beings in general and of Muslims in particular.

Every Muslim knows that Allah said what means:

{the best amongst you at the sight of God are the most pious.}* (Al-Hujurat 49:13)

The Prophet also said:

“An Arab has no advantage over a non-Arab, a white person has no advantage over a black person, and a black person has no advantage over a red person, except with piety and good deeds.”

However, sociological studies on the social structure of Muslims in India have proved the strong presence of descent-based social stratification among them that has serious implications on their quality of life and development, which is un-Islamic.

Unfortunately, features of the Hindu caste system, such as hierarchical ordering of social groups and hereditary occupation, are widely present among Indian Muslims as well.

Thus, present day Muslim societies in India are: (1) those who trace their origins to foreign lands such as Arabia, Persia, Turkistan or Afghanistan, (2) upper caste Hindus who converted to Islam, (3) middle caste converts whose occupations are ‘ritually clean’, and (4) converts from the ‘untouchable castes’, Bhangi (scavengers), Mehtar (sweepers), Chamar (tanners), and so on.

The Indian Government tried — and generally failed — to solve the problem of Muslim OTHER BACKWARD CLASSES via some Affirmative Action regulations in various states.

Therefore, given all the above disadvantages and forms of discrimination amongst Muslims based on their ‘castes’, the ‘Indian Muslim caste system’ clearly goes against the Islamic principles and values that Islam views as fundamental, and thus are un-Islamic.

Thus, there is NO SUCH THING as life will not be prosperous in marriage if we are married to other caste. There no caste system in Islam. Muslims are muslims, thats all.I hope this answers your question.

May Allah guide all of su through the right path.


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you must explain your mother that there is no caste system in islam.muslims are all equal.


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